Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Dressed for Debate


Which picture is the original? And what colors do you see there? It varies - right? So the great dress debate is about lighting, filters and perception. It has also brought to light how narcissistic many become when trying to get others to change their mind or see things the way they do.

I have heard, "You're wrong, you're dumb, you're stupid and you're crazy." Upon first glance, I saw goldish taupe stripes of lace on a white or light blue fabric dress. Some of my friends swear it is blue and black...period. I asked them to clarify the color of blue they were seeing by having them point to something with the same color. It was usually a bright, sort of royal cobalt blue?


If I hold my phone back and squint, I can see how the dress can be seen as blue and black. Either way, I find an interesting lesson in it all. Narrowing our focus to only that which we see, is clearly what divides us. And just think of how much energy you have wasted in this silly debate. I obviously bought in as well. You can link here to see John Mayer posted a video on Instagram using a color finder that I enjoyed  https://instagram.com/p/zoKAV3OEcv/ (FYI the black at the bottom of the circle is stationary - look at where the pointer is aimed). And here is a screenshot of an Instagram post that shows the dress in different lighting compared to the picture that sparked the debate.

So this selfie Sunday, I took this picture, inside, from my phone,  late last night. There is no natural sunlight, only one overhead light and a lower lamp. Each time I changed the lighting, it changed the color in the picture. And once I decided on a picture, I added different filters. 

It's all the same. No need to debate. Just accept and respect that others may see things differently than you do.

Oh and by the way...the 2nd pic down is the original (with a little touch up on my forehead to soften the wrinkles that appear when I make that face). 


Sunday, March 17, 2013

Fancy Free

Please don't tell me that God has made this happen
I don't want to believe he'd do this to me
But I can believe all things happen for a reason
I'll keep looking for lessons that can teach

And I will own it
Learn from it
And ask for forgiveness
Anytime I make a mistake
Keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Fancy free

Please don't feed me a line that feels self righteous
I could never be tied to your right way
But I can respect you and ask you to also respect me
We'll find love and commonality

Yes I will own it
Learn from it
And ask for forgiveness
Anytime I make a mistake
And keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Fancy free

So get your fancy free feet on the dance floor!
Come get down and don't mind them at all
I gave my fancy free heart to the savior
I keep walking through those open doors

And I have owned it
Learned from it
And asked for forgiveness
Anytime I've made a mistake
Keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Keep growing on...
Fancy free
Live fancy FREE!!!
Fancy free...
Live fancy free!

-shawna ray

"Don't let pride hold you outside"
-Pastor Gary Keesee
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Please Don't Preach


He tried to share his life. I went and missed the mark
Been burned a hundred times, He wasn’t hearing much
(He said), you speak their language, there is a tone I sense 
All that just seems connected, to one who first rejected
Didn’t understand; Wouldn’t hold my hand
Didn’t show the love I needed back then
Please don’t preach at me
Please don’t preach at me
Love me just where I am
Let me tell you where I’ve been
I will learn to call you friend,
If you don’t preach at me, please
She had her own faith walk, nature with shifting views
I grew to understand what she was working through
Seeking a place of peace; daily discovering
Questioning the things that hypocrites release
You who throw a stone, hey what's with all the judging?
Please don’t preach at me
Please don’t preach at me
Love me just where I am
Let me tell you where I’ve been
I will learn to call you friend,
If you don’t preach at me, please
Each journey is its own. Don’t try to put a notch on your belt
This pain goes far and deep. Respect the time and need for healing
Please don’t preach at me
Please don’t preach at me
Love me just where I am
Let me tell you where I’ve been
I will learn to call you friend,
If you don’t preach at me, please
Let life speak, let love speak, let hope speak to those who are listening
Let life seek, let love seek, let hope seek those who are seeking
Open to see all God’s children connecting
Don’t be condescending if you want to pray for me
I'm a fellow traveler; willing to share this journey
Conversate and contemplate, I’ll learn from you, you learn from me
But please, please, please don’t preach

by shawna ray, this was written on 4-22-05 but is a remindable thought for today

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Bug Off

Interrupt the bugs
When they try to invade
Growth that is in progress
Plants will need protecting
Keep sowing good seeds
Nutrition for the healthy
Stand up as a team
Not afraid to say
Bug off, bug off, bug off

Watch out for the thieves
Who try to come and take
All of your belongings
And steal your energy
Lock and use the key
Sensors are alarming
Action as a team
Not afraid to say
Bug off, bug off, bug off

Look up to the light
Find a new awareness
Purpose is refined
Recognize our oneness
Heart can lead the mind
Look inside with kindness
Change will come in time
Chase away the darkness
Bug off, bug off, bug off
You buggers better bug off!

shawna ray, today 8-15-12
Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®